
2 yrs ago, we started 'sending' Ian to po2's place and the arrangment was for po2 to take MRT to our place to pick Ian after his nap while mama goes for tuition and later it was po2 coming back the following day sending Ian home with home cooked dinner for mama and daddy and somehow it became mama sending Ian up and then daddy fetching Ian on the following day....
it has been pleasant sending Ian to po2's pl coz it was a 'treat' for him to take train (guess kids these days take too much car rides they wanna take public tpt) and now Ian has been so used to walking to TB to take train and only getting a seat when we change train (tho sometimes pple do give up seat for Ian) and then walking to po2's pl (just glad dun need to push the pram coz it can be quite cumbersome....its nicer to walk holding hand with the boy!)
Just the picking Ian up from the north can be quite tormenting at times coz there are so many pple going that direction after work and it can be jam for an hr.....wonder how on earth pple staying at north travel to and fro for work EVERYDAY....its a waste of fuel and time! Anw each time we go thru the tortorous time going north on wkday, we are just thankful we are staying so near town and daddy's workplace.....so daddy can zoom home quite fast! Ya and we are always thinking how nice if po2 could shift down nearer to us
Another 6 mths, Ian would be going to sch and thus would not have this wkly 'camp' anymore but it will be some holiday camp (yea would put him there during sch hols so to give mama a breather too hehee) guess it means a whole lot to po2 than to anyone coz this boy brings so much joy and cheer to the home on every mid wk from all the calls we make each wk....the boy's NOISE, laughter, singing and maybe sometimes crying just makes the whole house more LIVELY...wonder if the boy knows what it means by starting sch and no more po2's house camping or maybe he will be so caught up with sch that he forgot abt his 'camping' days??
Just glad we made this a wkly affair since he was barely 15 mths coz it means some gd couple time we could share wo the boy (altho it still doesn't make it easier to sleep wo our boy ard!) and mama could take time off to clean the house, run errands or even take up some assignments....maybe we started this whole 'affair' when he was relatively young and so it was instilled in him that coz mama has 'work' to do and thus he's at po2's pl and he enjoys it every wk when he's there tho there have been seasons when he din wanna go or even when he din wanna come home coz there was so much fun but he's adaptable and most obliging when we make the call....it makes things easier when we drop him off there and pick him up.....he started crawling when he 1st stayed over, made some few steps and today he's a toddler who's always so active and running ard the house and even at the playground....he has made some gd friends (which include some aunties) and this is a part we wanna note so that he grows up knowing he had some fond memories at po2's pl and definitely v warm time with his po2 and gong2!
Guess po2 would wish he could stay there even when sch starts but gonna be tough as he might be skipping sch for BSF so can't afford to skip another day else he might be 'kicked' out of sch at such young age hhaaa....and also wanna make sch a daily affair for this boy starting out his sch days....we could work out some other plans....got 6 more mths to think abt it! As at now, its still going po2's place on Wednesday!