Ian's reasoning 'skills' is building up!

Ian's just a wk away before he turns 4 yrs old but its quite amazing (or shld we say scary) how he's getting his thots being reasoned out

Just last mth, when mama was supposed to bring ah gong for his eye check so mama thot to prep him so told him the plan that he will go over ah mu's pl to nap and then play with Joy jie2 while mama goes with ah gong and he was prompt in asking why mama must go with ah gong. His 1st reply was 'why not ah-mu?' then mama had to explain coz ah mu must prep gor2 to go sch and then his next question was why ah gong can't go along and then mama explained coz the doc is an indian so ah gong might not understand and he went on to ask 'why doesn't he speak chinese?' and then after much explaination his next final ans was 'why can't the doc call u?'....was totally stumped at this qn coz the ans will be they dun hv such service! Haaaa anw the plan still went ahead and he did well at ah mu's pl but yet had to go thru such 'grilling' by our 3yo son arrgghhh or shld mama's ans be 'coz I am ur mama then do what I say' but din wanna appear so authoritarian esp he's only 3yo

Then just last wkend we were going to choose his cake for his bday and upon arriving the car park he told us he wanna go the playground but told him he gonna choose his own cake design and then he came up with this ingenious idea....'mama, why dun u choose for me while daddy and I go to the playground?' arrrgghh and this time of coz NO....coz that was just a lame excuse to go playground arrgghh guess its always no with mama ard hahaha

And the most worrying is abt his 'bargain' NOT to go Sun Sch coz just some wks back he started telling mama he doesn't like Sun Sch (wonder issit coz he has this comparison with his sch and BSF) and thot at that time was coz his gor2 and jie2 weren't ard but it persisted even after they are back from hols and there was a wk when he told mama he wanna stay home and not go church and after telling him Sun is the day we have to go church to worship God and all, then he said he wanna stay with mama in sanctuary to do 'stuff' but told him sternly kids have to go Sun Sch then he blurted saying he doesn't like the worship there, he likes the Sun Sch class but not the singing....sigh really wonder what is the prob with the worship coz he used to love singing there but lately he just dreaded going and tho he still goes and say Bye with a smile but deep inside him guess he's just doing it coz we kindof 'forced' on him sigh....this is a prob that's really worrying coz we dun wanna him go church disgruntled and just last Sun, some pple did come and try talk to him but he just din quite give a look....sigh sorry for those who felt he wasn't his own self coz even Pastor came to talk to him every wk but he just gave the 'dun bother me' look, we wonder issit the whole church thingy or issit coz too many pple come and 'bug' him since the min he stepped into church, we dunno but we need to pray for this boy....guess we never expected this to come this soon but hey we used to say 'are u trying to kid a 3yo?' but seriously now having a 3yo son myself, we wonder are they growing too fast for us to catch up with sigh....