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Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Ian's new found 'friends'??

Ian has attended Bible Study Fellowship (BSF) for almost 4 mths but the past few wks have been an ordeal for both him and mama coz abt a mth back, Ian started asking not to go BSF after complaining a few times that he got 'pushed' by di2 in class.....continued to bring him to BSF altho he will always hesitate not to go in when we are outside the classroom.....mama din know what to do and the teacher took him over by carrying a tearry boy into the class. This went on for at least 3-4 weeks until it 'climaxed' at a wk that he was pulling back when we stepped into the church and it took a long while before getting him into the class.

Mama was quite affected in a way coz never seen Ian in this tearry mode and had to continue to 'push' him into the class and just praying it will be over soon. Some said it was normal for kids as the novelty of attending 'sch' wears out after some time.....mama's leader even reminded her it might be some bully going on in the class which makes Ian not wanting to go class but reminding mama that bullying does exist in schs.....

2 wks ago, Ian finally got over this 'ordeal' and was back to his normal self of going back to the BSF, what a relief to mama.....and this week, Ian came home telling mama there is a John in his class and he gives this grin on his face (which we have never seen before) as there was so much joy when he was talking abt this new found friend and along with this other friend called Kai-ann....this just made this boy so happy abt going BSF and he even role play for mama with teacher asking boys aside and girls the other side and he said he was standing beside John....this was sth we never expected from him hahaa our boy is making friends already and this was sure unexpected change and mama told Ian to point out John and Kai-ann when mama go and pick him up next week (hahahaa so curious ma!) just so thankful the 'ordeal' ended and it turned out that there was joy out of the ordeal Ian went thru and he's so looking fwd to BSF now =) =) =)

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